At the risk of sounding like a lovelorn fool, I'm in love with this old song by Adam Sandler (yes, the actor Adam Sandler), from this movie The Wedding Singer, starring himself opposite Drew Barrymore. It's called I Wanna Grow Old With you, and I'm not sure how it got to my computer, but I think its a really swell song. And also, at the very real and possible risk of sounding like I really wanna get married, I've already decided that this song has definitely got to feature somewhere at any possible wedding in future. The other song is Jason Mraz's Lucky.

Can't believe I am actually writing all these down. Gushing about love songs, planning on wedding playlists. I tell you, I'm secretly a closet metro. The girlfriend insists that I'm practically a girl in most aspects and regards, except that I'm a guy on the outside. Perhaps; her words isn't entirely devoid of truth. I'm not a sporty person, and I don't have much of meet the boys for a night out kinda thing. I don't drink. But my hobbies aren't exactly feminine too. I do play computer games like most other guys, catch movies (and my movie choices are far from chick-flicky), etc. If anything, I marginally like cooking, and I definitely don't like baking. Cooking isn't so bad since I'm on a lifelong mission to perfect the quintessential chilli crab dish. And I tell you, there is absolutely nothing girly going on when I'm chopping up the crabs to prep them for their sacred destiny of being eaten. There is little that is more thrilling then brutally murdering and vivisecting a hapless mudcrab.

The girlfriend isn't the model lady either. She swears more than me (I save swearing for the times when I really need to vent frustration; using it too often kinda dulls their 'special' function), she loves watching guy-humour films (The Hangover being the next one, and she loves Will Ferrell. I mean, which girl loves Will Ferrell movies?), and does a few other stuff which I don't think should be revealed to save her some face.

So yeah, we split the gender-specific roles somewhere between ourselves. Given that, in future, housekeeping issues, the laundry, and the kids are still going to be strictly in her domain. I'll take up the iron at most!